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Gottman therapy builds the foundation of a strong relationship: trust, commitment, friendship, positive sentiment, and shared meaning.
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Gottman Couples Therapy in Encinitas
The Gottman Method is built on decades of research into what makes relationships thrive or fall apart. Emma Bourroux, AMFT is trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy Level 1 and works with couples in Encinitas and North County San Diego who want to stop cycling through the same fight and start feeling like a team again.
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This Approach Can Help When You Notice
You do not need to check every box. One pattern is enough to start.
- The same argument repeating with different details
- Criticism, defensiveness, contempt, or stonewalling during conflict
- Feeling more like co-managers than romantic partners
- Trust ruptures, including affairs, lies, or emotional withdrawal
- Differences in parenting, money, sex, or family expectations
- A desire to strengthen an already good relationship before problems grow
How it works
What to expect from this approach
Softened Startup
You learn how to bring up a hard topic without it becoming an attack. The first three minutes of a conversation often predict the whole outcome.
Repair and De-escalation
Couples practice taking breaks before flooding takes over and using repair statements that actually land, even in the middle of conflict.
Build Fondness and Admiration
Conflict skills matter, but so does friendship. Gottman work includes exercises that reconnect you to why you chose each other in the first place.
Couples therapy is not only for relationships in crisis. It is also for partners who want to invest in something worth keeping. Emma brings Gottman Method structure with warmth and respect for both of you.
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September 10, 2026 · 5 min readOther Approaches Emma Uses
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DBT
Your emotions go from 0 to 100 and you do not know how to slow them down. DBT teaches practical skills to get through intense moments, calm down, and say what you need without blowing up or shutting down.
02Narrative Therapy
You have started to believe you are “the anxious one,” “the problem,” or “not good enough.” Narrative Therapy helps you see those labels as stories you picked up, not facts about you, and decide which ones you want to keep.
03Trauma-Informed Care
You do not have to say everything out loud to be helped. Trauma-informed therapy means you set the pace, you can say no or pause at any time, and nothing gets pushed before you are ready.
Emma often blends approaches. Visit the FAQ or read the blog to learn more.
Ready to begin?
Reach out through Good Therapy San Diego and Emma will help you find a first appointment in Encinitas.
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